
Most single ladies who are searching always complain that the reason they are single is because there aren’t any good men out there, but have you considered that maybe, just maybe you’re the one who has the problem that repels all the good men away?
Agreed no one is perfect but there are some negative behaviours that ladies possess that will chase away all men and the ladies might have no idea they have those qualities. For example no matter how beautiful you are if you’re hygiene is that of a pig I doubt any man would stick with you, below are some other popular reasons as to why you might be single even though you are a catch.
1. ALWAYS STAYING INDOORS: The more time you spend in your room, the less time you have to interact with other people. Think of all the awesomeness you could be missing out on, because you’re choosing to sit in your bed.
2. NOT REPLYING HIS MESSAGES: If you’re not answering his messages, he’s going to come to assume that you don’t like him. That you aren’t willing to give him a chance. And he’s eventually going to stop vying for your attention.
3. REGULARLY BITCHING AND COMPLAINING: Happiness is contagious. Same with misery. That’s why you’re going to unintentionally push people away if you’re always whining about something. Try to see the positive in life. Try to smile for a change.
4. SMOKING: Most people have automatic deal breakers. If they see you smoking or doing drugs, that’s it. They won’t even give you a shot.
5. BEING A PIG: You don’t need skimpy outfits and heavy makeup to grab a guy’s attention. But you do need to shower and brush out your knots. Greasy hair ain’t hot.
6. BEING A GOSSIP ADDICT: No one wants to date someone they can’t trust. Someone that smiles to their face and then criticises them behind their back. If you a gossip, people aren’t going to want anything to do with you.
7. SOMEONE WHO BRAGS TOO MUCH: Don’t act like you’re superior to the people around you. Treat them as equals. And they will treat you the same.
8. BEING NEGATIVE AND ALWAYS PESSIMISTIC: If you’re negative, you won’t realise when the right guy is right in front of you. Instead, you will think of all the things that could go wrong and psych yourself out. You’d ruin the relationship before it even starts
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