7 Reasons He Hasn’t Called You Back

So you met this really cute guy at the cinema, had a nice chat and he asked you for your number and tells you he’d call you back later in the day. So you get home and you’re holding your phone close by anticipating and waiting for the guy’s call. Two days have passed and still he hasn’t call and your mind is racing asking why, well here are some reasons..

1. HE DOESN’T THINK HE CAN LIVE UPTO YOUR EXPECTATIONS: There are some men who’ll look at you in all of your glory and say, ‘Yes! This woman is so phenomenal that she makes me want to be better.’ Then there are some men who will be terrified by how much you have going on.

2. HE’S GOING THROUGH SOME STUFF IN HIS LIFE: Sometimes the timing isn’t just right. People deal with financial issues, grief, life changes,  and career challenges . You might be the perfect person at the wrong time. We are all human, Sometimes a man may not be calling you because he is dealing with all these problems at once.

3. OR HE DOESN’T EVEN LIKE YOU: Yes, my gorgeous one It happens. You are not for everyone and that’s a good thing. There are people who don’t eat fried chicken and there are folks who despise chocolate ice cream. No matter how beautiful, intelligent, kind, witty, and funny you are you won’t just be someone’s cup of tea.

4. HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND: Listen up  gorgeous, Facts are facts. Some people cheat, Maybe this man was putting the moves on you and when stuff got turned up remembered that he was already in a serious relationship. Maybe he met someone the same time he met you and she was a better match.

5. HE’S NOT AVAILABLE EMOTIONALLY: Repeat after me dear: Man’s rejection is God’s protection. This man could just not be into commitment, yup.. It happens. It’s better that you figure it out sooner than later. Let him go on with his self and you go and get your life.

6. HE’S EXTRA BUSY: Life happens. Perhaps his work and kids are taking up all of his time. Maybe he feels like he will get around to calling you at some point. You have to ask yourself if someone doesn’t have time for you, would you want to be in a relationship with them?
7. OR HE HAS NO CLUE: We’ve had clueless episodes in our lives. Right now there’s someone who is probably lusting after the splendour of YOU and you have no idea. This guy may just have no idea that you were so into him.