Abuse in relationships are not only physical, it can also emotional
or psychological abuse which are even worse than physical abuse.
Psychological or emotional can make one question one’s sanity, breaking
one’s self-esteem and making one do the unthinkable
People that stay in abused relationship always think their partner
will change one day or stay because of one or two reasons known to them
but no matter what no one should be forced or willing to stay in an
abuse relationship. Here are some reasons why you should never stay in
an abusive relationship.
Not Normal: Most people think their relationship is
healthy and normal because they are not been abused physically while
deep down they are been psychologically or emotionally. It is not normal
nor healthy to be in a relationship where you are been abused with
words, intimidated, belittled, threatened or coerced into. Someone is
out there that will treat you better than what you are enduring now.
It is your duty to endure abuse: Most people are
made to believe that suffering in relationships is a sign of love which
is a very fat lie, this is common with women who believe they are only
suffering for love baby girl run as fast as your legs can carry you.No
sane partner will put you through emotional, physical or psychological
problem.
It can lead to loss of trust: Abusive relationship
can make one lose trust for other people, one might become paranoid and
start avoiding other people when one stays in an abusive relationship
for too long and starting something new later might become very
difficult.
It might get fossilised: An abused victim
might end up thinking he/she is the one at fault thereby leading the
abuser to believe abuse is a normal thing and therefore continue abusing
others too.
Your emotions have to be respected: Abuse starts
with not respecting one’s partner’s boundaries, if you respect your
partner you won’t be able to abuse them in any form whatever.
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