Diary Of A Nigerian Side Chick (Part 2)

Origin of SC: Sidechicks Originate from so many factors, But let’s talk about 3 points
1) Generational Sidechicks
2) Bad Economy
3) Low self esteem

(1)Generational SC : This is a fact, it has to do with the Cognition, the mental archetypes of some young ladies and what they saw their parents do. A lot of ladies saw their mothers, aunties and guardians assume the role of INTENTIONAL SIDECHICKS without any consequences. Some people even credit their success to being a Sidechick. I received an Email in 2016 where this lady stated that ” Yes I am a Sidechick/ Mistress, my mother was a Sidechick before she turned 2nd wife and she Is happy, I never lacked anything so what’s wrong with me being a Sidechick too??” She was crucified in the comment section but to her that is normalcy, it is a norm, she doesn’t see anything with with it. She will pass the same values to her children as well. She sees nothing wrong in herself or her daughter taking someone else’s husband.

(2)Bad Economy : Most youth corpers, unemployed ladies, private school and public school university students fall victim to the Bad Economy. The only power a man has over a lady who doesn’t have proper finances is MONEY . Men use power and the promise of a better life to lure ladies into their nest or den. And once you’re in it’s hard to get out because emotions, pregnancy etc

(3)Low Self Esteem: The major reason for Sidechicks around the world is low self esteem. Any lady who really knows her worth won’t subject herself to being number 2. And always have to spend ” the day after” with a man.
Sidechicks always have “the day after”. Let’s call them, ” the day after girls”
Most Sidechicks don’t ever get spend -January 1st, -December 31st, -February 14th, Birthdays and other days with the man.

DO YOU AGREE??