Wednesday, 25 January 2017

Diary Of A Nigerian Side Chick (Part 3)



4. Can a wife be a Side chick?
Yes, they can. A wife or a girlfriend can assume the role of a side chick when the man is emotionally committed to another woman. You find the wife being “the day after lady,” she’s not aware of or can’t control her husband’s movements or plans. She is now a relic in her own marriage.
A lady once sent an email to my blog and said; “I want to know if I’m still married, I feel like a side chick, I don’t know my husband’s whereabouts or movements.”

5. How do you eliminate side chicks?
I’m sorry to disappoint you ladies, wives, girlfriends, you can not eliminate side chicks. If I were to extrapolate the side chick phenomenon to psychology I would say they are like “extraneous variables” i.e.: “very stubborn and unpredictable.” However, you can control them and stay one step ahead. My advice is for you to be vigilant in your marriage or relationship. Try your best to be the best. Be prayerful. Most importantly have your own finances. The reason why a lot of women, ladies are stuck in detrimental relationships is that they don’t have the “vex money” to leave the marriage or relationship. When a man knows you can’t leave, he will do and undo because he knows when he wakes up in the morning you will still be there.
Here is a daily mantra for you to repeat “I WILL NOT ENCOUNTER A SIDE CHICK IN MY MARRIAGE”. AMEN

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