Grab glasses of chilled wine, sip on it and read through the weirdest but surest way to handle a cheating partner. Below are 7 tips to get at it.
1. BE CALM ABOUT IT: Taking out time to calm down is very essential because no one ever makes good decisions when angry. Take a day, two, a week..as long as you need to be calm about it.
2. DO NOT BE IN A HURRY TO FIND OUT WHY THEY ARE CHEATING: Knowing why they are cheating or cheated is not the most important thing to know. So it’s best you don’t dive in right away.
3. AVOID CONFRONTATION: Confrontation is the beginning and the end of getting the answers you want. The moment you confront your partner, you lose the chance of ever getting the truth from them.
4. BE AT YOUR BEST: This is best time to register at a gym, take piano lessons, play more football, or whatever brings out the best in you. Change your wardrobe, change your hairstyle, get a manicure….be mysterious and make them wonder what’s going on with you. Trust me they will notice.
5. KEEP FRIENDS OUT OF THE MATTER: Friends would only tell you what you want to hear at this point and make it seem right…and bad advice is the last thing you need at this point, so leave them out of the picture….just don’t rush off to drink poison, because if you die, life goes on. So be sharp.
6. MAKE THEM KNOW YOU KNOW: Having gone through stages 1-5, you are now ready to talk. So after some hot sex, a good dinner, a nice movie, or a relaxing massage for that cheating partner of yours, hold their hands and tell them just how much you know. (if na you, you no go fear?) Make it clear that you will be willing to listen if they ever wanted to talk about it.
7. GO ON WITH LIFE LIKE NOTHING HAPPENED: This is the hardest part, but it is the surest way to get the result you want.
So you are wondering what you just read? What’s this b***h saying? Your way hasn’t helped you since the 90’s so try mine and thank me later. Cheers!
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