1. TOO PICKY
I’m too picky. As conceited as it sounds, I’ve become really good at seeing the red flags and warning signs of a doomed relationship and it’s gotten to the point where I just don’t even want to bother anymore. I’d rather focus my time and effort elsewhere in life.
I’m too picky. As conceited as it sounds, I’ve become really good at seeing the red flags and warning signs of a doomed relationship and it’s gotten to the point where I just don’t even want to bother anymore. I’d rather focus my time and effort elsewhere in life.
2. DON’T WANT TO SETTLE
People think I’m out of their league or are douche bags that I don’t want to date.
I don’t want to be single, I miss having somebody to snuggle up to, but I also don’t want to settle – I’ve already wasted enough time on shitty relationships.
People think I’m out of their league or are douche bags that I don’t want to date.
I don’t want to be single, I miss having somebody to snuggle up to, but I also don’t want to settle – I’ve already wasted enough time on shitty relationships.
3. BROKEN FROM THE PAST
Dating seems way too tedious and I just don’t want to go through with it. I’ve also had some relationships that have broken me, and I’m not sure I can do it again
Dating seems way too tedious and I just don’t want to go through with it. I’ve also had some relationships that have broken me, and I’m not sure I can do it again
4. HUNG UP ON BEST FRIEND
In love with my best friend. Hard to meet other people when I am still hung up on a relationship that is never going to happen.
In love with my best friend. Hard to meet other people when I am still hung up on a relationship that is never going to happen.
5. LAZINESS
I’m lazy. And the allure of POSSIBLY meeting someone I could POSSIBLY go on a date with and then POSSIBLY get into a relationship with is just not stronger than the call of my bed. Particularly since most weeks I’m working 9-9 with some very big personalities and at night/weekends all I want to do is bask in being alone.
I’m lazy. And the allure of POSSIBLY meeting someone I could POSSIBLY go on a date with and then POSSIBLY get into a relationship with is just not stronger than the call of my bed. Particularly since most weeks I’m working 9-9 with some very big personalities and at night/weekends all I want to do is bask in being alone.
6. JUST HASN’T TAMED HIM YET
He’s like a wild horse and I have to lasso him. Every time I get the rope around his neck it slips off
Seems like its working this time though.
He’s like a wild horse and I have to lasso him. Every time I get the rope around his neck it slips off
Seems like its working this time though.
7. AWKWARD AT SMALL TALK
Because I can’t make small talk to save my life, so therefore no one ever really talks to me for more than 5 minutes because it gets awkward.
Because I can’t make small talk to save my life, so therefore no one ever really talks to me for more than 5 minutes because it gets awkward.
8. MEN ONLY WANT SEX
Well for one, I am not entirely sure if I am in the right mindset to be in a relationship with anyone right now. I don’t want to get into a relationship just because I am lonely, and I’m not sure I am in the right mental state right now to assess if I am getting into a relationship for the right reasons, and I don’t think that is fair on any potential future partners.
Well for one, I am not entirely sure if I am in the right mindset to be in a relationship with anyone right now. I don’t want to get into a relationship just because I am lonely, and I’m not sure I am in the right mental state right now to assess if I am getting into a relationship for the right reasons, and I don’t think that is fair on any potential future partners.
…secondly to that no one likes me in that way. And whenever I think I have a shot with someone it turns out they just want sex. Which is fine, I have nothing against casual sex if that is what people want. It’s just not for me, but typically they’ve not been very honest upfront about it and I end up getting led on and burned. Can lead to some pretty shitty self esteem issues where sometimes I have bouts (which I know are irrational and am working on) in which I feel I’m only good for sex, because that’s all anyone ever wants from me…and even then they end up moving on to a new model quickly…sometimes right in front of me.
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