Not every guy is a cheat, don’t let the bag eggs amongst us tarnish your image of men and make you jump into conclusion that all men are good for nothing douchebags. Some men genuinely love their woman and have no intentions of ever jilting or playing with their heart, they possess these common qualities.
1. HE DOESN’T HIDE THINGS FROM YOU: If you have caught him hiding a big secret or two (like he lost his job and didn’t tell you for months.. huge), it’s certainly feasible that he’s capable of hiding a side chick.
2. HE’S TRUSTWORTHY: If he tends not to lie or sneak off or go dark for days at a time, he’s probably not the kind of guy who could handle keeping an affair a secret. Yeah, sure, he could also just be the greatest liar of all time but the likelihood of that is slim.
3. HE DOESN’T HAVE A HISTORY OF CHEATING: If you know he has a good track record, that’s as good an endorsement as any you need. Once a cheater, always a cheater isn’t inherently true but like you learned in primary school, patterns have a way of always repeating themselves.
4. YOU ALSO DON’T HAVE A HISTORY OF CHEATING: If you’re a partner who has been caught cheating, then there’s a chance that he could retaliate out of hatred. Everyone knows that one toxic couple that’s always doing shitty things to each other and despite all odds they stay together. If you are not them then you’re in a pretty great spot.
5. HE’S NOT SELFISH: In many situations cheating is very selfish. If he’s the kind of guy that drops everything and cancels plans when you need him most then he’s probably not the kind of man that would hurt you by cheating on you. Selflessness is still different than just being nice. He can be kind and friendly and still be a cheater. On the bright side he can act like a sarcastic jerk and still be loyal.
6. YOU KNOW ALMOST EVERYTHING GOING ON IN HIS LIFE: If you are the jealous type that gets worried when he mentions a coworker he got lunch with, there’s likely nothing to worry about there. He won’t bother mentioning someone he had on the side or was thinking about pursuing. What good would that do? The more he keeps you up to date in his personal life, the better. At the same time, don’t sweat it if you don’t know the names of every single one of his coworkers and/or classmates.
7. SO FAR SO GOOD NO WARNING SIGNS: While it’s possible to get tricked by a cheating partner, plenty of people feel like it was so obvious. If he is not acting sketchy, suspicious, or constantly checking and hiding his phone, then there’s nothing to really be suspicious of.
8. AND YOUR SEX LIFE IS FIRE: There are plenty of reasons why your se x life can slow down for a bit, but if you are doing it on the regular, he only has so much libido to go around… He can’t have a marathon se x session with you and then run off to do it with someone else. Or can he?! I’ll choose to believe he can’t. For unrelated reasons.
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